Thursday, August 20, 2009

As Noella's 8th month approaches, some new things that entertain her:
trying to pull off her diaper
sticking her hands in the toilet
eating anything that she is not supposed to (bark or sticks, paper, and dog fur are favorites)
pulling cords out of outlets
taking as many books as she can off of the shelf (and chewing on them, of course)
sticking her fingers in her mouth and smearing food everywhere
going down stairs (surprisingly adept at this, even head first)
playing with the DVD/ stereo buttons
and trying to stand and/or climb me while nursing.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

I am Jack's sense of deep indignation
I need to get a little off topic here. No kids or cute pictures in this post. Just had a VERY intense conversation with a new friend about her treatment in her PhD program. Or, as she calls her discipline (this is not an affectionate nickname), "the academy." After several years of graduate work and some questionable guidance, she was subject to repeated harassment by someone in a position of power. Her attempts to deal with things by working with other members of the department lead her to believe that they were aware of the situation, but didn't really care. Certainly no actions were taken to support or protect her in any way. University avenues also did not offer her any assistance, and her attempts to hire an attorney failed because, as they told her, she had no evidence. A classic "he said/ she said", and given what she was up against (and the massive amount of resources that could be brought to bear against her) there was no chance.
The thing that just blows me away- she finished. She is a PhD. She is a deeply scarred PhD with a whole lot of understandable issues to deal with. But she remained in the program and completed it and managed to get a job as a professor despite what could not have been very sound or sincere references or any support from her department. If there is anything that speaks to the ability of a person to act under adversity, this is it.
Not sure what else to share- I just wanted others to share in my sense of outrage.

Monday, August 17, 2009

Now for my official faculty portrait from SIUE. At least I look friendly.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Here are some shots from Noella's long overdue photoshoot (pardon my scanner work- I am trying to entertain two small children at the same time as I am doing this):


I did try to get pictures with Mariel, but her current "smile" for the camera looks more like she is a rabid cat baring her teeth at the camera. It is a shame, because she is such a beautiful girl but puts on such a crazy face if she knows you are taking a picture. We'll hope for good preschool shots when they do school pics in the fall.