If a tree falls...
According to the rules of insurance, if your tree falls on your neighbor's house or property, it is their problem.
UNLESS you happened to know about a problem beforehand. Then you are negligent.
We had the second tree (neither of which were ours) fall on our property in a month. This time around, the tree in question had been split and hanging precariously over our yard for several weeks. We had spoken to the owners about it, but they did not do anything. Now that the darn thing has actually come most of the way down, they are giving the impression that they had not done anything in the hopes that it would just fall on our land and become our problem. So we will take down the limbs in our yard, but what to do about the large portions caught up in other trees and hanging from the original trunk? I am perplexed; Patrick is angry. The city is now involved. We'll have to see how this ends, but I don't think that we will be having any cozy get togethers with these particular neighbors. Frost wrote that good fences make good neighbors... he did not mention anything about trees.
Noella is looking better- it is hard to say "good" because on most kids the scabs/ crust/ redness would still look pretty bad. For her, though, she definately looks good. The steroids have helped tremendously. We stopped that medication today, and we go to the allergist (thanks to the suggestions of our friend, "Dr. Fred") on Tuesday. Keep your fingers crossed for us.
In the meantime I am headed to Austin for a weekend of bachelorette fun with grad school friends. I am going to bed early tonight, since I am already exhausted. I know that I can hold my own with the single and wild ladies (I did make it up until 3 am recently with a particularly dangerous friend of mine)... but I also know that if I do so it will take me about a week or two to recover!
Thursday, June 03, 2010
Tuesday, June 01, 2010
Maybe I am taking the wrong test...
I am starting to feel as though I am in one of those silly high school/ college dreams you have right about finals time. I did everything- went to class, did my homework, studied for hours, was well rested and fed... only to show up and find out that I am taking a test on a different subject entirely. Maybe you studied European history and are taking a test on metaphysics. Surprise!
In the real world, I did everything I was supposed to- nursed, avoided processed foods, made my own foods, all introduced at the right times, etc. Now I am trying to follow directions (at least I finally got on the course of seeing who are ready to help!) but can't seem to get direction fast enough to keep up with Noella's symptoms. In other words: I don't know what to do. I have no idea what the answers are, or even what they could be anymore. I am a bit too type A to be comfortable with this experience, and I cannot imagine any parent who would not be concerned about their child's ongoing discomfort.
We have taken out all of the potential food allergens. The dogs left yesterday to spend some summer vacation time with my parents. Every toy has been scrubbed or washed, the floors have all been steam sanitized, the carpets have been professionally cleaned, all linens from sheets to carseat covers to shower curtains washed, you name it we have done it. Granted, the food has been a bit over a week and the dogs have really only been gone a day and a half. I should not (although of course I will) expect an instant reaction. The most frustrating thing is that not only is she not getting better, but in many ways it looks like she is getting worse. The eczema is spreading on her arms, is almost permanently on her upper thighs, and her ankles and fingers are almost constantly scratched up.
She has a stomach bug today and a fever, which made her eczema worse. When she got up from nap, her feet were all blotchy and - now that I have seen it once- look like they are ready to erupt into blisters. So we went to the doctor, consulted with multiple people in the practice, and agreed to put her on a short course of steroids to try to bring all of the inflamation in her body down. Next step: an allergist. Hopefully they can help us with finding some answers.
I am starting to feel as though I am in one of those silly high school/ college dreams you have right about finals time. I did everything- went to class, did my homework, studied for hours, was well rested and fed... only to show up and find out that I am taking a test on a different subject entirely. Maybe you studied European history and are taking a test on metaphysics. Surprise!
In the real world, I did everything I was supposed to- nursed, avoided processed foods, made my own foods, all introduced at the right times, etc. Now I am trying to follow directions (at least I finally got on the course of seeing who are ready to help!) but can't seem to get direction fast enough to keep up with Noella's symptoms. In other words: I don't know what to do. I have no idea what the answers are, or even what they could be anymore. I am a bit too type A to be comfortable with this experience, and I cannot imagine any parent who would not be concerned about their child's ongoing discomfort.
We have taken out all of the potential food allergens. The dogs left yesterday to spend some summer vacation time with my parents. Every toy has been scrubbed or washed, the floors have all been steam sanitized, the carpets have been professionally cleaned, all linens from sheets to carseat covers to shower curtains washed, you name it we have done it. Granted, the food has been a bit over a week and the dogs have really only been gone a day and a half. I should not (although of course I will) expect an instant reaction. The most frustrating thing is that not only is she not getting better, but in many ways it looks like she is getting worse. The eczema is spreading on her arms, is almost permanently on her upper thighs, and her ankles and fingers are almost constantly scratched up.
She has a stomach bug today and a fever, which made her eczema worse. When she got up from nap, her feet were all blotchy and - now that I have seen it once- look like they are ready to erupt into blisters. So we went to the doctor, consulted with multiple people in the practice, and agreed to put her on a short course of steroids to try to bring all of the inflamation in her body down. Next step: an allergist. Hopefully they can help us with finding some answers.
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