Sunday, April 18, 2010

Fly away
A few weeks ago we got our birthday gift of caterpillars in the mail.  We watched them grow and grow, and about a week ago they changed into chrysalids and got moved out of their little plastic home and into the butterly net, awaiting their big change.  I'll be honest- I sort of forgot about them in the guest room. 
Thursday morning I went in to check my computer and to my surprise there was a butterfly in there. I managed to spend about two hours between getting appropriate flowers and an orange at the store (shopping for butterfly food was a new experience) and just staring at him/her.  It is surprisingly exhilerating to watch a butterfly up close.  By the time Patrick and the girls came home that evening, all of our butterflies were out.  For the space of a few days, we all spent a lot of time just watching them.  Patrick reminded me several times that these were Mariel's butterflies, not mine. 
But, really, they couldn't stay too long in the tent.  I was worried that they could not really fly in there and they seemed to be getting a little crazy trying to do it anyway.  Saturday morning we let them go out into the big world. 
Good luck butterflies! Come back and see me (um, I mean come back and see Mariel)!

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Its been a while...
We have been fighting the stomach bug on and off for a long while (hoping we are off now).  Mostly Noella, but Mariel has had moments, too- like throwing up first thing on Easter morning.  SOOO many fluid substances coming out of my children (and even dogs!) from various parts, it is hard to keep up.  Right now (fingers crossed, knock on wood, whatever we need to do) all seems well and everyone in good health.  Lets keep it up!
Lots of general chaos, with Patrick being out of town, me getting ready for a conference next week, my parents visiting for a few days, and all of the normal (or less than normal) day to day activities. A good example: this evening.  I was getting Noella in her jammies and sent Mariel to go to the bathroom.  A heartrending wail of pure agony from the bathroom brought me and a naked baby running. 
Mariel sobs "MY RING IS IN THE POTTY!"  Hysterical crying. Noella promptly pees all over the floor. 
I determine that somehow (details unknown) her precious plastic pink ring went down the toilet.  We look, I even put my hand in, but no ring to be found.  I am not putting forth more effort than that, and the sobbing restarts.  I manage to clean the floor, get Noella dressed, nursed and to bed while placating a disaster of a child.  Soothing and cuddling, story in bed, and then she turns to me with a look.  If you have a child, spouse, or sibling, you may know the look that means I have something to say that I am not sure I should.  Each person has their own.  Mariel's is a little smile, often with an "Um, Mom?"
"When I dropped my ring in the potty at school I could get it out."
"What?"
"I dropped my ring in the potty at school, and I could get it out.  But at home when I dropped it in it disappeared."
(Trying to remember if we washed our hands really well before eating dinner)
"You wore it today?  You dropped your ring in the potty at school TODAY? How did it get in the potty?"
"It was an accident.  It wasn't on my finger, it wasn't in my hand, I just dropped it.  But I got it out."
"Did you put the ring in our potty on purpose?  To see what would happen?"
"No.  It was an accident." Sobs resume. "Mom, now I only have TWO rings. I need THREE rings."
"We can use your piggy bank money to get a new one.  That won't go near the potty."
"OK." No more tears. "And I can use the rest of the money to buy a new dress up...."
... and she moves on.  But I am wondering what else will be journeying through our plumbing on "accident."  Also, she may now think that when she cries, Noella pees.

Here are some long overdue pictures:
In between bouts of serious stomach issues, we managed an Easter egg hunt with a friend and fellow princess:
Easter was not quite as planned, as Mariel woke up sick and Noella also ended up in rough shape.  We skipped church, Easter dinner, our fancy dresses, and pretty much anything that involved effort.  Noella was worth a few good photos:
But Mariel mostly looked at me like this when I tried to take her picture:
It was a gorgeous day, so spirits were a little better when we went for an afternoon walk.
Noella was home with us for two and a half days last week because she was having such tummy troubles.  She has not suffered for her "sick" diet of yogurt, toast, applesauce and crackers.  For those who have not seen her eat lately, she is a voracious eater and very advanced with the spoon.  On this particular afternoon, she was being a little goofy.  Here is her yogurt beard:

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Comment-

I just now realize that my annoyance about a lack of sensitivity to my nursing of my toddler is directed at a group of women whose profession is "to nurse."  Any irony there?
Seriously, people.

After a day of doctor check ups (no problems, just realized I have not seen a doctor in a year!), I have a message for the assortment of nursing staff that I encountered today:

Yes, I am still nursing my 15 month old.  This is ok.  Breastfeeding a child past one year - or even two years- of age is recommended by pediatricians, by the World Health Organization, and pretty much every medical group that does research on maternal or pediatric health.  This is good for her health, her immunity to disease, her brain development, her metabolism, and her sense of security.  This is good for me, reducing my chances of diabetes and many cancers. 
Yes, my records are right that I have not had a period since March 2008 and this is also perfectly fine (and possibly beneficial).  And yes, she does have teeth, and eat other foods.  And talk and walk.  And drink out of a cup.  But once or twice a day, she nurses. 
In fact, dear nursing staff of assorted doctors' offices, your employer(s), the very doctor(s) who saw me today, support my continued nursing as a positive decision and (as long as I take my calcium and iron) as very good for all involved.  So, rather than looking at me as though I have two heads or possibly (gasp) a child hanging from my nipple as I walk around your office, you should be applauding me for extended breastfeeding.  Thank you, dear nurses, for your understanding.
Sincerely,
Your lactating patient.

Friday, March 26, 2010

Mariel's conversation of the day:
Yesterday at school, Mariel apparently had the following conversation.
Visiting Gymnastics Teacher: You are the cutest thing ever!
Mariel: No, I'm not.
Teacher: Why not?
Mariel: I'm four.  Noella is one.  She is the cutest thing ever.

In honor of Noella, the cutest thing ever, who is now 15 months old, I have a quick run down of her favorite things:

Taking off her shoes.  And socks.  And sometimes clothes.
Drinking from a straw.
Dogs.  Feeding the dogs.  Petting the dogs.  Picking up dog toys. Yelling dog ("DAH!").
Making very loud noises.
Feeding herself with a spoon. 
Yogurt and applesauce in her hair.
Crackers.
Actually, eating just about anything. 
Her pacifier.
Picking up tiny pieces of dirt, sticks or anything she sees on the ground outside.  Carrying them around in vice like grip.
Nursing (who knew that the infant who hated nursing would become a toddler who now loves it!?)
Running down the sidewalk.
The wind in her hair.
Saying "hi" and "bye" to people in cars or on the street as we drive by.
Talking on her play phone.
Dancing.
Carrying books around.
Laughing with her sister.
Her dada.